摘要：

自改革开放以来，世界越来越重视教育。作为教育的初级阶段，家庭教育越来越受到人们的关注。家庭是对儿童进行初级教育的最主要场所，对其日后良好习性的养成和智力开发发挥着着十分重要的作用。本论文以美国电影《怦然心动》为例，通过分析该影片中体现出的美国家庭教育的方式，并与中国的家庭教育方式相对比，旨在找出其具体的差异以及存在这些差异的原因，进而找出更为科学的教育方式。本论文大致分为五大部分：文献综述；家庭教育的差异及电影分析；存在差异的原因；建议和结论。

关键词：家庭教育；差异；青少年

Abstract: Since the reform and opening-up, the world pays more attention to education. As the primary stage of education, family education has been increasingly concerned and emphasized by more people. The family is the main place for the enlightenment education of children and it plays an important role for the children to form good habits and develop their intellect. This paper takes American movie Flipped as an example to analyze the style of American family education and compared it with Chinese family education, its aim to analyze the differences between Chinese and American family education, find the reasons for the differences and to find more scientific educational methods. This thesis is divided into five parts: literature review, the differences between the two countries’ family education, the reasons, suggestions and conclusion.

Key words: family education; differences；children

1. Introduction
In most people's opinion, they consider schools and teachers to accept responsibility for education. As a matter of fact, there are three areas which influence a child to be educated. Three areas are family education, school education and social education. As we know, family education comes from the course of our parents guide us to do anything. Our parents' education accompanies our entire life stage. The family education offers a way to train better habits and develop the intelligence of children. Therefore, the family is the most important place for a child to accept enlightenment education. And Deng Xiaoping once said that modern country based on talent, talent based in education, education based on a family.
Since 1978 years, our country spends more efforts to the education of students. Actually，the family education has a great development not only in practice but also in theory. It plays an important part of the education at the primary stage. The methods of family education are increasing all the time, and they provide a richer experience to their theoretical study and puts forward higher requirements as well. With the living standard have risen quickly，people pay more attention to the education of children. However, a large number of Chinese families are only-child-family, and these families tend to spoil a child and ignore the family education.