摘　要

劳伦斯，作为20世纪英国最伟大的小说家之一，同时也是诗人，散文家，还是一名多产的记者。一生为文学事业做出了巨大的贡献。他的很多作品如《儿子与情人》，《虹》，《恋爱中的女人》等，都为后人所传颂。其中，《儿子与情人》被誉为20世纪最具创新精神的长篇小说之一，有着巨大的研究价值和丰富的研究课题。在此作品中，保罗对其母亲挚热的感情，被心理学家弗洛伊德称之为“俄狄浦斯情结”，也就是所谓的恋母情结。母亲莫尔夫人在保罗的成长中扮演着一个非常重要的角色。以至于保罗在成年后两段爱情的失败，可以说是母亲在从中作祟。母亲深切地影响着保罗，直至她去世。而这个却是值得我们思考的。本文就结合此小说讨论母亲对孩子童年的影响。

关键词： 儿子与情人；母亲影响；童年
 
Abstract
Lawrence, as one of the most famous novelistic in England during the 20th, also as a poet, proser and a prolific journalist made a great contribution to the literary career. Many of his novels like Sons and Lovers, the Rainbow, Women in Love are all famous all over the world. People gave high evaluation to his works. Sons and Lovers, enjoyed the name of full of spirit of innovation. It has the great research value and various of research subjects. In Sons and Lovers, the relationship between Paul and his mother Mrs. Morel is so called Oedipus Complex. The mother Mrs. Morel played a very important role in Paul's life. She led the failure of the two relationship of Paul and his girlfriends. The mother always had a great impact on Paul until she died. But this is worth to let us think about. This issue mainly talked about the influence of mother to the kids according to the novel Sons and Lovers.

Key words: Sons and Lovers; mother impact; childhood

1 Introduction
   David Herbert Lawrence was born in a miner's family in Eastwood, Nottinghamshire on Sept 11th, 1885. He was a remarkable English writer. He contributed in many fields including novel, poem, drama, prose, travel notes and so on. He was considered as one of the most important writers in the 20th century. On the other hand, people have many controversies about him. His father was a miner. His rude made Lawrence stay away from him and preferred to spend more time with his mother. Lawrence' s works were all around one theme, the human relationship, between woman and man in particularly. His novels were really full of ideas.