摘 要

如何实现女性的自我价值是门大学问，每位女性都在探索答案。那么，首先要搞清楚的是女性价值的定义。每位女性都是一个独立的个体，都有权利选择自己的轨迹，在自己的舞台上发光发热，不依赖、不仰仗男人，不畏惧未知的前方，对自己的人生负责。但是随着“二奶”这个词的出现，社会上的“寄居”、“依附”现象越来越普遍。我们在痛斥这种现象的同时也不难发现，很多纯情少女因为恋情不顺而放弃了自己宝贵的生命。《简﹒爱》中的女主角一直是我最欣赏的女性，坚强、独立、理性、有主见，却又可以为了自己的爱情而奋不顾身。本篇论文通过简﹒爱的生活经历来剖析她的这种独立性的养成以及她最后心灵的归宿。在维护女性的尊严、平等的同时追求幸福，追求个人价值。本文旨在从文学名著《简﹒爱》、现实案例以及心理学角度探索新时代女性要实现自我价值的意义以及正确途径。

关键词：女性；自我价值；简﹒爱；实现；途径
 
Abstract

It is challenging to study how to realize women’s life values and every woman is a student on this subject. To be a good student, the first thing to know is the definition of women’s life value. Every woman is an independent individual and has every right to choose their routes and platforms on which they can demonstrate their strengths. They are responsible for their lives: they dont’t count on men and are not afraid of the unknown future. However, with the spread of the word “Er Nai” (mistress), it is a general phenomenon for women to rely on men and be their mistresses. While we are spitting at these women we can also easily find that many innocent maidens finish their precious lives just because of unsuccessful romantic relationships. The heroin in Jane Eyre is my favourite female. She is not only strong, independent, sensible and strong-minded but also she can strive for her love desperately. This thesis is to analyse the cultivation process of her character and her psychological change according to her experience, how she pursues happiness, life value and defend her dignity and equality meanwhile. This thesis aims at finding ways to help modern females realize self-fulfilment and illustrates importance of self-fulfilment from three aspects, famous literary work, Jane Eyre, cases in realism and psychology.

Keywords: Female; Self-fulfilment; Jane Eyre; Realize; Way

Chapter 1 Introduction
Everyone has his definition of life value. Some think life value equals success, some reckon it is similar to happiness while others regard it as freedom. As a matter of fact, all of us are seeking life value. However, when it comes to women, their life value is closely associated with men. Many hold the belief that judging a woman equals judging the man she marries. In other words, if her husband is successful then she is successful and vice versa. Isn’t it unfair?
Every woman is an independent individual and they have every right to demonstrate their strengths and realize their life value. Live for themselves and enjoy themselves. Then comes the question, what is woman’s life value? In chapter 2, the thesis will discuss the definition of woman’s life value. Everyone has his understanding and I will choose some typical viewpoints and illustrate them. We can appreciate the essence in their thoughts and get inspired. Besides, what’s more important is to figure out if these representatives have a common ground. If they do, then draw the conclusion of what is woman’s real life value.